I have been asked by a number of people for my perspective, as a female, on bending my boyfriend over and pegging him. The question from prospective peggers is ‘What do I get out of it?’ Is there physical pleasure for the woman, or is it all about domination and role-reversal? Also, the fear of ‘turning my boyfriend gay’ has been voiced.
Men of all sexual orientations may derive pleasure from having their prostate gland stimulated. The prostate is somewhere up their bum (as you can tell I’m no medical doctor) and stroking it can make him cum. Enjoying this doesn’t mean he is gay and it won’t turn him gay. If you like receiving anal sex because it feels good, it probably feels even better for him. That’s a good enough reason to try it at least once.
So, as the girl on top, what’s in it for me? Does pegging him make me cum?
Well, using a regular strap-on like the brilliant Red Rider, even though I love the excitement of being the dominant partner and making him climax through anal penetration, I don’t receive much direct genital stimulation from the dildo. But my hand is often positioned at the base of the dildo in an ideal position to masturbate myself. So I do, which works out very nicely for me, thankyou very much.